Thank you so much for inviting me.
I am a settler of Italian heritage born on the lands of the Kanien'kehá:ka—Mohawk—people. For 30 years, I have lived on the traditional territories of the Blackfoot and Treaty 7 nations, and I acknowledge the original caretakers of this land.
I am honoured to present on Anishinabe territory, whose kind man initiative, rooted in the seven grandfather teachings, is an inspiring example of men's violence prevention engagement and a blueprint that we can all learn from. The heart of my work is grounded in confronting the ongoing legacies of colonialism, patriarchy and racialized systems that shape the social issues we face today. I am here with the support of my community.
Anti-feminist ideology is not new. A defining moment of my life was as a McGill student on December 6, 1989, when 14 women were separated from men and murdered at École Polytechnique, Université de Montréal, because there was, as there still is, a societal permission to resent women, propel men's victimhood despite rising rates of domestic and sexual violence against women and girls, and a cult-like approval for male authoritarianism.
I was among those who reclaimed the campus, despite threats of harm. However, like many settlers, I was ignorant of the thousands of missing and murdered indigenous women and girls and two-spirit people, who receive no justice, no media attention and no acknowledgement that their lives matter. These experiences have marked my understanding of how misogyny and colonialism are weaponized.
Anti-feminism has always included racist, homophobic, transphobic and colonial ideologies and rigid theocratic interpretations of gender roles. Today, this is amplified to our youth through economic insecurity, the climate crisis, political polarization and the digital world, where misogyny generates enormous profits. Young people, particularly young men who feel disconnected, unrepresented or anxious about the future, are targeted.
As a university educator and mentor, I witness gen Z's anxiety and feelings of hopelessness through my students. Their depth is reflected in the words of my 17-year-old, who told me that young people turn to screens because the real world is terrifying. This fear is underscored in Galway and Field's Canadian study on youth and climate anxiety, where 73% viewed the future as “frightening” and nearly half agreed that “humanity is doomed”.
With increasing youth unemployment, now at almost 15%, a recent Ipsos study shows that 80% of Canadian youth view home ownership as only for the rich. As older adults, we must ask ourselves what we are doing to create spaces of hope, compassion, equity, relational accountability and opportunity, particularly for marginalized youth.
Across 35 years of social work supporting women and children impacted by intimate partner violence, war, systemic racism and economic deprivation, I have seen first-hand that anti-feminist ideology is deeply woven into structures that withhold economic well-being, impose gender tropes, police gender diversity and sanction violence. Namely, the most pervasive and least-addressed form, as I've said, is against indigenous women and girls and two-spirit people. Lack of progress on the 231 calls for justice is impacting not only indigenous youth but also non-indigenous youth, and we have some recommendations on that.
My primary prevention research focuses on community-based, culturally resonant, peer-led groups that integrate well-being as a violence-prevention approach in programs with men, women and families. This intersectional research, co-led with ethnocultural communities, is rooted in community strengths.
In 2020, we launched the transforming masculinities international community of practice, now across 11 regions. It amplifies the need for holistic community-based solutions with cultural grounding; the benefits of youth engagement through nurturing fatherhood and role modelling; and the necessity to address systemic issues, not just individual behaviours.
The question of what's happening with gen Z men was explored last summer through a small-scale survey in Alberta, mostly with Alberta men, co-conducted with social work student Charles Panabaker, with some notable findings: 54% receive messages about gender primarily online, but less than 10% feel that influencers are their main resources; 80% report having positive role models, but only 25% have someone they can talk to about their struggles; only 42%—and this is important—support gender equality and only 46% believe in creating safe spaces for women; and 83% say that gender issues are too politicized.
These findings suggest a greater need for connection, belonging, representation and accountability, which can increase the vulnerability to the digital misogyny, extremist narratives and anti-female ideology that are in the manosphere, which is amplified by influencers who, in fact, profit in the capitalist system from fear and polarization.