It's never easy. A young man's or woman's life has been changed forever; therefore your perspective is certainly not what it was before you left for your theatre of operations or before you had your accident. That being said, all of them still definitely have the courage they had, and the approach is to look forward.
I can honestly say I don't know of one of the young men or women who is pitying themselves. They're all looking forward and looking to move on. How can I get through rehab? How can things get better? It's very inspirational for us to watch them go.