Exactly. The Germans never asked the Parisians to re-enact Germany's entrance into Paris in order to celebrate the German victory. If ever they made such a request, the Germans would get what was coming to them, even if they promised to respect the historical accounts faithfully, the length of the guns, the time periods and any other historical detail. The Japanese will never ask the Americans if they could re-enact the attack on Pearl Harbour to celebrate their victory. This is what is unacceptable in this entire affair, but there is even more.
You have abandoned the idea of re-enacting these events. I congratulate you, because this was the right decision. Fundamentally, the original idea was a mistake. However, some other things will have to be abandoned as well.
I just found out about one thing. On your Internet site, you invite young schoolchildren to take part in battles on the Plains of Abraham. And you say that this is not a festive activity? I have found a few words and expressions on the site. You invite them to take part in entertaining activities and to enrol so that they can participate in thrilling military maneuvers. And if that's not festive, what is? These activities are offered as some kind of reward for the best students from elementary schools. This should be banned.
There is no method to invite young people to come re-enact battles on a battlefield. How can you justify something like this?