I can go first. It doesn't make a difference so much at the games, but it's the whole relationship piece in the process leading up to the games, and it also depends on the individual as well.
In general, from my personal experiences, in terms of communication, it's easier to communicate with and relate to a female coach. There's also a lot of stress at this level, from a female perspective. Long term, I want to have a family and kids. I know at the beginning, it stressed me out in thinking that if I pursue this, this is my time frame. After talking to female coaches who have gone through the whole process, I found it really nice to be able to relate to people who have been in the same situation and are successful with those things that might come across as barriers.
From a performance standpoint, I don't see a difference in terms of systematic decision-making. I can't say that males are more qualified than females in understanding the sport systems and situations that happen in a game. It's more that it influences the process and your development as an athlete, just by decreasing the stressors.