Thank you for the question.
I don't know if I have a great answer for that, but competition is always going to be there, and life isn't fair. I think you do need to learn how to win and how to lose to be successful.
With that being said, it's becoming a year-round sport for kids. They're not able to do multi-sports or do other things. The Canadian Hockey League is big business. Big money and scholarships are involved. The money is so enticing that kids are in sport year-round, and I think that's part of the problem too.