Going back to the comments earlier, for me it was the opportunity to say that there is a problem. You know your child best. How do you say, “It's okay to stay away from school”, “It's okay to stay in bed”, or “It's okay; you don't have to do this”? That discussion point is really difficult to have.
I think the friends, the colleagues, watching Rachel lose connection through all of her network and not being in school for three months.... As a parent, you know something is seriously wrong when they're not texting, chatting or watching TV because they can't. All of a sudden, that distance takes place at a grade 11 age, in this case, and that creates a huge gap. That creates depression and a lack of connection, and that brings on more and more pressure.
To me, that is the moment of truth. How do you navigate through that? It's very, very difficult putting your hand up and saying, “It's depression” or something else. We as parents don't know what it is. We just know they're not well.