I agree with her. The health-care providers definitely need education, because most of the time when dense breast is seen but no cancer is diagnosed, it comes back as a normal report.
We might end up having staging--whether it is 25% of dense breast or it is 50% of dense breast. The risk increases with that, and that information should be shared with the patient. Also, the patient should know what other choices she will have after being informed that she has dense breast.