I can address that because I'm aging at the moment myself.
The issue is our doctors. When we go to see our doctors—I live here in Ottawa, I live in Aylmer in Quebec—they do not understand holistically what a gay man is or what an LGBTQ2 person is. When we say that we would like to have testing for different things, they say, "You're married and shouldn't be having risky sex”, or whatever—but that's part of the holistic approach to health care for anybody. We don't know what the risk factors are or if we have a dormant case or whatever.
For me as an aging gay man, one of the biggest priorities is really to be able to have an honest discussion with health care providers, one that is free of stigma and judgment. I am also wondering if, later on, there are going to be some facilities that will take me, a gay man, open-armed.