I can send you a survey that we did in Simcoe County, which was funded for five years by the Public Health Agency of Canada, of men who had sex with men and who had female partners. For example, you mentioned the blood supply of gay men in 2016, but what about the men who are bi who are married to women who don't identify as gay and who are having sex with men? They are not queried on this at all. Gay men feel even more isolated, because a lot of gay men have sex with married men who are married to women.
When I came out gay, my wife and I had the same doctor. I would not tell my doctor that I was having sex with men, and I would not get tested with him for any kind of sexually transmitted infection that I may or may not have had. I would go into Toronto only because the confidentiality between my doctor, my wife and me seemed to be transparent. Whatever I disclosed to him, he would disclose to my wife and vice versa. I mean, I found out my wife had yeast infections before she told me in some cases.