Sometimes it's not even necessarily about comfort, but I think we have opportunities to be outed more with the questions we're asked. For example, every time I go to the doctor, they'll say things like, “Are you sexually active? Might you be pregnant?” I'd say, “No.” “Well, are you using protection?” “No.” “Are you on the pill?” “No.” “Well, then how do you know you're not pregnant?” “Well, I'm gay.” I have to out myself on a regular basis to get health care.
I don't know. In my experience, I'm forced to be out more than I necessarily want to.