Okay, thank you.
The medical specialists I interacted with, those who had specialized training in human sexuality and were experts on these issues, have said the notion that being gay or trans was a choice has been thoroughly debunked. Even if it weren't, why would that be an excuse to mistreat someone? But it's not a choice. The science is clear on this. Do you still encounter people who claim it is a choice? Is that still a common view in the community among those with whom you interact?
Again, I'll leave it open.