For me, I think our spirit is defined by our own sense of self and our space and place in our community. There was a point for me where I thought.... As I say, I just matured into my two-spirit self five years ago to learn more about the culture and get those kinds of teachings. However, I once viewed it as where I wanted to have romantic relationships with men and then with women. Then I came to realize that there are other genders and that—as I started to grow my own knowledge—for me, being two-spirit is not based on our sexuality.
It's really hard to explain. Auntie Albert would be the one to talk to on that one, yes.