I'll give it a try. I wish that I were more of an expert in this area. What I can say on this is that the trauma that a mother experiences when losing her child has heavy implications for the child. This is not just an either-or question. That mother-infant is a duo, and in some ways they exist as a unit, so what happens for the mother has implications for the child. Her ability to regain custody of her child diminishes as a consequence of that trauma, so no, I'm not sure we're getting it right.
On April 11th, 2024. See this statement in context.