We know our own children, because we are the ones that raised them. If we see that a child's attitude is changing, our job as parents is to realize what is going on. But how can you possibly determine things like that? They are minors. It is our responsibility to take care of our young people. And that is the way to do it.
Furthermore, benefits are already available to victims of crime. It's important for you to understand that this is aimed at families and at the parents who live with these children. That's why there must be a clear separation between the two.