It comes from a lot of engagement with parents. Parents tend to use their minds. We have seen it, and often it comes with such good intentions.
We have a situation that I'm personally helping with right now, with one of the youth on our youth advisory council whose parents did not go to university. They have significant economic challenges, and they have a very bright daughter. She is achieving extremely high marks. They can't see anything else other than her staying with those high marks and doing everything she can to keep those marks perfect, because that is the only way she will get financial assistance to go into university.
It's just one example, but it is something where we can have conversations; they can be exposed.... Often it's just awareness of opportunities. Parents are aware of only what they're aware of. It's just like youth; they only know what they know. I think there needs to be more support and recognition for the importance of parental engagement.
When the federal government is investing in programs that engage youth, they need to encourage a component in there of parental engagement: What are the youth doing; what are they learning; what are the messages they're hearing? We encourage our members across the country to send notes home with the kids to say what the child learned that day. Those of us who have kids know that they're not always forthcoming with that information. That's especially important in communities where the parents are struggling for whatever reason.
That conversation just needs to be started and supported. It's a program area that a few people have tacked on, organizations like Actua, but not one that we've ever had funding to do. It's kind of a secondary thing that we've realized is really important, and now we're elevating that to say it's essential. If we put all this effort into getting the youth engaged, and they go home and they're completely discouraged, our work is not successful.