Thank you.
In these committees, sometimes we tend to be partisan, and we tend to say, “This is what we did; this is what they're not doing.”
I really appreciate being here today. This isn't the committee I normally sit on, but I think I can speak with some experience, because I've done a lot of work within my own community in terms of our women's shelter. I know that one of the most prevalent demographics in recent years in terms of those who are using our women's shelter is widowed seniors, females, who are now being housed in our women's shelter.
This is going to be more of a statement than a question, if that's okay with the committee. I very much appreciated the testimony of the witnesses who are here today, both on the phone and in person.
I would like to tell you a little about my family. My mom worked for a very long time in long-term care as well as home care. She is all of about five foot nothing, and she spoke quite a bit about the violence she encountered at the hands of some of her patients. She also spoke, over that time, about being all alone and having to restrain somebody who was much larger than she was. She first injured her back because of a violent outburst of a patient who didn't mean her harm but didn't know what he was doing at the time. She subsequently talked about, and does to this day, how she wishes she were still doing what she was doing, but she was unable to continue because of the lack of resources, whether it was in Alberta or in British Columbia, where she finished her career. She also talked about the fact that there was no lifting mechanism in the rooms, how sometimes she would have to physically try to move a patient who was much larger than she was, and how that impacted her physically.
If she were here today, she would talk to you, emotionally, about something that hasn't been mentioned today. She would talk to you about going into a first nations community to help a first nations senior.
I believe it was Ms. Phinney or Dr. Cottle who mentioned that sometimes home care isn't the best care for our seniors—not necessarily because of bad intentions but because they don't have the capacity to care for the seniors the way they really should be cared for.
I remember one where my mom told me that she went in to deal with this gentleman. It was on a Monday. The last she had seen him was on a Friday. She said her heart broke, as the gentleman was still sitting in the same spot he was sitting in on the Friday. He had not been moved. He was still sitting in the clothes and the undergarments and the sanitary products that she had put him in on Friday. The rash and the pain that this gentleman was in, and the frustration for being left there, looking out a window—that broke my mom's heart.
Now I'm going to talk to you about my brother, who really is my hero. He's battled cancer twice. He is a senior care aide in a long-term facility in the Okanagan, and he works with the union, representing those who are in those facilities in the Okanagan. He tells me about the pain that the care aides go through, because they want to do better. They are in this profession because they want to help.
Mr. Chair, you can tell me if I'm going too long. This is more of a grandstand than it is anything else.
As I mentioned to my colleague, I really applaud the group that is around the table here. I don't think this is a time for partisan politics. I think we need to move forward. I can tell you quite confidently that when you're speaking to those who are in this profession, they want to help, but they don't have the resources. They haven't been given the resources. Far too often they are faced with overtime. They're tired. There is emotional stress on them. They care for these people, and they see their charges suffering because not enough resources have been given to help care for them.
I applaud you for looking at this, but I challenge you to come up with something that is manageable and that will have an impact, because we need this. Whether it is in Nova Scotia or British Columbia, we have seniors who are suffering. Every government is well intentioned, but we can do better and we must do better. I can tell you from examples that I know all too well.
I want to talk to Ms. Cottle and Ms. Armstrong, if I have a second.