If you had your magic wand with you today, I would say that we need at least to have equal parental rights when it comes to leave. I know that it depends on the child and it depends on the situation. Some children develop and attach much faster than others do. In my case, it took me four years to fully attach to my family and to be able to tell them everything and be honest and realize, okay, they're not going anywhere.
That's a long time, but I think to at least have the minimum, the same amount that biological families do, is important. That's what I would ask for.