What that means is that they are available to their child or youth, who has joined their family through adoption, to build those routines and attachments. It's showing up, just like I was talking about, and being there for them.
Even if a youth is joining their family at age 12 or 13, it's really important for that parent or caregiver to be there, to be able to meet them after school or to maybe take them out to their favourite lunch spot over lunch hour once a week, because that's usually the only way you're going to get them out to lunch.
By continually showing up and being actively involved in their life, they are going to realize after an extended period of time that their parents are there for them.