Good morning. I came to Canada 22 years ago as a refugee with my husband and two children. At that time I was five months' pregnant. I am bringing to you my story to explain how important it is to withdraw Bill C-31.
When I arrived, I was protected by Canada, and my children were able to grow up with their father at their side. In my country, my husband was almost killed and he was jailed and tortured. In gratitude for our protection and the treatment we received, we founded a refugee house where we welcome women and children who are fleeing gender persecution.
If we had arrived in Canada after June 29 of this year and this bill was law by then and we were designated on arrival, we would have been be detained, my children and I would have been separated from my husband, my children would have been given to a foster home or stayed in jail with me, and I would have given birth in jail.
At the immigration holding centre in Toronto, there are no facilities to keep families together. Women are in one wing with their children, and men are in another wing. They are only allowed to meet for 45 minutes in the morning and 45 minutes in the afternoon. Imagine yourself in that situation, only being able to see your family for a short time every day, only being able to carry your newborn baby for a short time every day. This is an outright violation of Canadian values.
What I'm trying to say is that we need to focus on the Canadian values of keeping families protected and together. Bill C-31 is a violation of these values.
Another way we will be keeping families separated is through the five-year waiting period before applications for permanent residency will be allowed by designated arrivals.
Most of the women who come to our centre have left behind young children. In the current process it takes them roughly six years to reunify with their children because of the delays, especially if visas have to be processed through the Nairobi office. With the five-year waiting period, they will be separated from their children for 11 to 12 years. This could mean half of a child's life. This will have a strong emotional and social impact, because these children will need to have specific programs and support to be appropriately reunited with their mothers and fathers and vice versa. We are seeing the social impact on the families that are reunified after eight to ten years.
Refugees feel tremendous guilt at having been safe here while their children and spouses were left behind in precarious situations. Families need to go through a process of recognition where children need to be reacquainted with their mothers and the mothers recognize and accept that their children are no longer their babies, but adolescents. Families need help to make this adjustment, which sometimes is impossible. Often they need counselling to adapt.
The CCR asks: How is deliberately separating refugees from their families compatible with family values?