Having travelled internationally, I want to say that Canada is held up as a country where many diverse cultures live very well. We are respected, and our diversity is recognized and celebrated. However, within our cultures—and I will speak for mine because I work with the South Asian community—there are practices that need to be changed. We bring our baggage with us.
My father did. He was a Seventh-day Adventist church pastor. We had six daughters and one son, and he would stand on a pulpit with 500 people there and say things like, “If my daughter ever dated a black man, I'd shoot her. I'll cut her throat”.
They do bring this kind of cultural baggage, and I have been fighting against it and with him, and I have been punished by my family for standing up to it.
Also, there's not just the barbaric female genital mutilation part. We have, and we know, Canadians who give birth to daughters and abandon them in the old country. They don't come back. These are Canadian children. We have not heard from them.
In 2013 in the U.K—and it's written all over the papers—they went and told all the elementary and high school girls that if they were being forced out of the U.K, to put a teaspoon in their underwear. In one month 1,700 girls were stopped at the airport because they had teaspoons in their underwear. They were being taken out to be forced into marriage. That's a lot of young girls.
We have no way of documenting how many Canadian girls are being taken out. The Calgary Herald has several stories.... Two weeks after the training I did with the police they were able to go to the airport and bring a girl back from the airport that her family had left there because she was being forced into a marriage. One of the persons in the community found out about it, knew about it, and said, “This is against the law. Go get her”. They have done it three times.
We need to document these kinds of events because we are not documenting the now. We need processes in place to do that.
I could go on. I've just written another book called Daughters of Kismet, which identifies what's happening in Canada and that nobody's talking about it.
Yes, these are barbaric cultural practices. It's the practices we are bothered about, not the cultures. Cultures are fine. I am a proud Indian Punjabi. I love it. I am who I am, and I cannot change it. I'll be damned if I'm going to let my father and uncles sell their daughters. That's what this is about. It's about the practices, and they are barbaric.