Yes.
Our relationship is much more complicated. We must admit it.
At the age of 40, I may have wanted a second child. I turned 41 two weeks ago, and I'm too old for this. The immigration system ensured that I won't have a second child. I'm 41 years old. By the time Ernesto arrives, I'll be too old to get pregnant again. Not only was he denied the opportunity to attend the birth of the first child, but I won't have other children.
You choose people's future and you have unbelievable control over it, while people live in uncertainty. I also don't even know whether that future will happen.