In North Korea everything belongs to the regime. In other words, the people are Kim Jong-il's property. Food, land, everything belongs to Kim's family. So there is no civil society there like we have here. Universities, hospitals, and any institutions belong to the state, and the state belongs to Kim Jong-il.
It's totally different from our perspective. One example: she told me that in North Korea you have no right to commit suicide. In the socialist system the people are fed by the government. If the government is unable to provide food, the people should have the right to economic activity, like trading or farming in the backyard. They don't have that right. They do, but officially it is not allowed.
In desperate situations they decide on suicide and some commit suicide. Suicide in North Korea is a crime against the state. Why? Because human beings are labour. You need labour, not human beings. So as an asset of the state you cannot destroy the asset of the state, your life. If one commits suicide, it is a crime and one should be punished. The people who commit suicide are already gone. Who is responsible? The surviving members of the family. The government doesn't feed the people. They don't have a right to basic economic activity. They don't have the right to commit suicide. The only way one can die is to starve to death. That's the only right you have. That's the situation.