Can I take your last question first?
As a woman, you don't have to be raped to feel violated. There are many ways of raping a woman, psychologically and emotionally. I think this is what some governments have learned to do. When you talk about a woman's body in her presence and in the presence of her family in a traditional society like Iran's, it is like raping her. When you talk about a woman as being very promiscuous and have social media campaigns against her, it is more or less raping her.
This is not to say that I do not have reports of raping of women, but I am not going that far. It is the whole attitude towards women.
You don't have to kill people, but you can subjugate them; you can kill their spirit. The dictatorships of the world are learning very fast how to kill people's spirits without physically killing them, and this is what we need to learn about.