I don't have your experience, obviously, but having gone through this with people with whom I'm extremely close, I watched them choose to have MAID as an option. I watched them change their mind about the date, in one case to push it out and in one case to bring it closer, and they had that choice. I think that's just what we're trying to say.
We're all very sad about the circumstances you were in. I just wanted to reassure people that in no way can MAID be forced on someone against their will, or on someone with the religious views of your son or the personal views that you may have. Even if they are suffering, I think offering palliative care or MAID, or whatever the options may be, is not saying you are not worth living. That is not the message that I hear.