Can I just make a first-hand comment to reinforce what General O'Brien said?
For a reservist coming back from theatre, it could be traumatic. A dead reservist coming back from theatre is very traumatic.
Before I went to Afghanistan, I had the honour of attending five funerals for five reservists. I must tell you that the comments I got from the families of the soldiers were remarkable, in that they had not realized how strong that regimental family connection was...and how quickly the regimental family gathered around to do what was necessary to be done. These are from the mothers and fathers and siblings of the solders who were killed. So the family gathers to do what needs to be done.