I'm not sure about the word “blame”, but I think it's rampant in society. It's where we are right now. Things like the #MeToo movement are rapidly giving us awareness of what's going on.
It's the responsibility of us all, not just the military or the political side of things. It's everybody's responsibility to open their eyes and see the gender stereotyping and to talk to their kids about it, to buy books that are more gender-neutral or have female heroes.
I got a brochure about a week ago from CAA, and it's all pictures of men saving the lives of women who are stuck on the side of the road and can't change a tire. It's offensive to me, but most people would look at it and not think twice. I think we just need awareness about those things.