I have to ask my question right away just in case you leave.
A number of your colleagues, and you yourself, have spoken about the involvement of loved ones—fathers, mothers, extended family—in easy-going terms. I have met a number of people grappling with these problems, and they have told me that becoming involved in the process is very different from what you are telling us. I could provide you with a number of examples of that kind of testimony.
I'm simply bridging the gap between those people and yourselves. What do they have to do, if members of an extended family try to contact people in your group and are told that it's not the way things work?