I'm not sure I want palliative care to take all the credit. There's also personal growth and a chance of accommodation.
There are two that come to mind. One gentlemen showed up in emergency, saying he wanted his life shortened because he was too sick to get on the plane to Switzerland, where he'd already been accepted by Dignitas. He had prostate cancer. He had uncontrolled pain. He came into the hospital, and we got his pain under control. He ended up marrying his girlfriend and dying in a palliative care unit, and he was very happy. I remember walking into his room, and he said, “I don't have to do anything. I can just enjoy this time of my life.”
I also worked with a woman with ALS who, the first time I walked in to see her, gave me the papers for Dignitas. In the end, she changed her mind. She ended up getting a feeding tube, which prolonged her life. She could have chosen not to do that and could have ended her life earlier.
Just this week I met a woman who wanted assistance in shortening her life because she simply could not tolerate being helped to go to the toilet. We have not been able to relieve that kind of suffering. I'm not sure we would ever be able to do that.