Absolutely. There's the shame and the guilt. I go back to that reintegration into society for the victim as well. We look at Sharon, and 29 years later she's still trying to find a way, a place that puts her at ease when she wakes up every day.
For myself, those are feelings that are absolutely real. Being a victim and needing to change my own life, I understand the commitment it takes. It's tough. I know I couldn't just write a letter and be okay the next day. That's not the way it worked for me.