I receive phone calls from women in communities who have been assaulted by chiefs, by councillors. That is huge. We're talking about remote communities, where they have nowhere to go. That's the power and control I was talking about. Safety mechanisms, when we're addressing these issues, are not going to occur in those communities. This is where they are being affected.
On violence in some first nations communities, we have heard from a lot of women that this is part of the reason they've left. The issues that come as a result of dividing matrimonial property is because we are talking about separation and divorce, which a lot of times is about violence. A lot of times the women who are leaving those homes are leaving abusive relationships. If there is no mechanism for them to be able to even come forward to address those issues, then they won't be resolved.
That's a whole other issue of the cycle of violence that's occurring, which is a result of the issues of colonization and assimilation policies. We're talking about generations of families who have been impacted by this. Men and women in our communities are dealing with that. Today we are having to address that. Some don't want to talk about it at all. They don't even want to address it.
The phone calls I get and these stories from women in the community--story after story--are sad. It is sad to hear this and sad that we have to deal with this issue. But it needs to be addressed in order for our communities to move forward. These issues have to be addressed. That's why, on the question earlier about collaboration with government, there also has to be an acknowledgement by government of why we're dealing with this issue the way we're having to deal with it. Because that didn't happen before. In our communities, there was no violence. There wasn't abuse. When we were living in very healthy communities and when we addressed this in our way, we had a social structure.
We have a social structure, which is based on our traditional values and our customs and beliefs. Those traditional customs and beliefs have been impacted as a result of colonization and the Indian Act system. That's what we're addressing today. On every issue that we bring forward--matrimonial property, housing issues, education issues--those are always the underlying or causal factors that we're having to address. Women and our children are being impacted the most. That's what we're talking about.
It's not just in first nations communities. We know it's happening all across the country. It's in Canadian homes where women are being abused. We are taking the brunt of it, and I'm tired of it. As a first nations woman, as a Mohawk woman, I'm tired of hearing this. I feel it's my responsibility to make sure it doesn't occur any more.
My daughter is 23, and she also had to live through that. I have grandchildren, and I don't want them to live through it. I don't want them to see violence. As women in our communities, that's what we're having to go through, that healing process to deal with these issues. That's what we're talking about.
Thank you.