I can only talk to these two latest research projects that we've done. What we found is very fascinating.
It's wonderful that you came from a family with 10 people, because those 10 kids helped out. Kids help out in various ways. One of the ways they help us is with money, or purchasing, or driving, or shopping. They do all kinds of stuff. I know that's a fact, but some families have children, adult children, who absolutely do not care for their older parents and don't care what happens to them. We have seen that in this particular study over and over. We're quite stumped. We need to do a random, stratified sample to make sure this isn't just a one-off. We are finding that there are really helpful families and that there are really horrible families that don't care about their mothers. We've interviewed about 300 people, and we're finding more on the negative side.
Your family is special. Your family made do. It was a family event, whereas in some places women are just dumped, and we're going to find... Fewer children are being born now. Your family is a very rare event; 1.2 children is what we're looking at now.