I would say the people in your life should be people who support you. If you find your friends or some family members are speaking to you about your weight, or about your body, or anything really in your life that is detrimental to your development, then you should really cut them out of your life because you will not get better if your inner voice and your inner dialogue is positive, but the people around you are constantly second-guessing what you're doing.
I would say to get the proper support around you if you can't find professional help.