Well, thank you. The bystander concept, if you will, really has applications at all different levels. It means that everybody in a given community needs to be part of the solution.
By the way, if you're a principal of a high school, you have an enormous platform of influence. If you don't do prevention programming for your staff, faculty, and students, and if you don't engage with various domestic and sexual violence programs in the community and have them come in and do their work, etc., then in a sense you're being a passive bystander in the face of abusive behaviour that's going on. We know that abusive behaviour, I'm sorry, is going on. We know that a number of girls in that high school have already been victimized, already have sexual abuse histories. Sometimes they're in abusive relationships in high school right now. If you are not doing anything proactively as a leader in that school community, then in a sense you're being a passive bystander.
On a micro level, if you're at a party and you're hanging out with a group of friends at university, and you see a guy you know trying to get a really drunk woman upstairs with him and you know he's going to try to have sex with her, which could very well be a rape, and you don't do anything—you know, “I'm not going to get involved in that, I'm just going to go over here”—then in a sense you're being a passive bystander in the face of potential abuse and rape. Our whole approach is that we should think about how we can do this differently. Instead of walking away and pretending it's not your issue, how can you in some fashion engage with this and interrupt this?
There are a whole bunch of strategies of what to do. We can't get into that now, but it's a sensibility. It's not just kids; it's adults. A big part of my work is working with adults. For example, there are lots of adults, in adult workplaces, who are bystanders to abusive behaviour and who don't say anything and don't do anything. Part of the reason is that they know there are consequences, potentially negative consequences, for speaking up.
So it's not just 16-year-old boys and girls who are policed into silence because of the consequences of speaking up; often adults are as well. I think we need bystander training in adult workplaces too.