I will just start by saying that to me—and I think Jenelle referred to this as well—it's not unlike what we do to influence young girls. You just need role models. As I said, I often had many young boys sitting around the kitchen counter debating pedestrian bridges, the cost of transit, and any number of other things, so it's role modelling for these young men, too.
I couldn't be prouder of my two sons. I really think we have raised and are raising a generation in lots of areas where this kind of conversation will happen less often. Role modelling and demonstrating.... Whether it's on TV, whether it's in their own home, or whether it's in their city or in a small community, showing gender balance will tell the story.
I'm going to just ask this. For the people who have young children, and even if you're in the background there, here is your tool. Sorry, it's off topic. Every night you're away, you make a paper chain, with the number of nights you're going to be away. Each night has a chain link. You write a note on it. Every night, they open up one of the pieces of paper. It shows them that the time you're going to be away is reducing. Then when it gets to one link, that means mommy or daddy is coming home the next day.