There are a couple of things.
When I refer to the eroticization of male violence, I think very specifically about the way that pornography is used to silence women who espouse feminist perspectives and progressive politics. There is the content of the pornography itself, which very often does exactly that, right? You see images of women who were brutalized and violently gang raped, and that's entertainment and it's erotic. That's what's happening.
I'm more interested in why it is that women who speak in public are then artificially turned into porn. They're photoshopped into images where men are doing that to them and are sent these images. That's a clear statement of power.