I think they have to go hand in hand. One of the issues is that people, particularly adults and parents, don't realize the degree to which the habits, the traditions, and the traditional norms that operated a certain way offline become tessellated online and distorted. They actually change in ways that no one can anticipate.
For example, I do a lot of writing about sexualized violence and what it looks like when the structure that enables sexualized violence shows itself in very stark ways online. We know, for example, that many parents are worried about sexting. They are concerned that their children are going to be sharing intimate images, and in the media we talk about that as though sex and technology are bad and dangerous things, but in reality, we aren't really talking to children about either of those things in responsible ways.
When we talk about sexting, a lot of people don't make the distinction between consensual and non-consensual sexting, and what happens is that we end up with a situation in which girls, whom we have told are equal, enter into these situations, and most teenagers who are sexting are sexting with someone they are in a relationship with. They enter this and they think that they are going to have equal respect and reciprocal ideas about consent, and that is not what happens. Boys are two, and in some cases, five times more likely to share photographs non-consensually, so there's a gigantic gender gap in both the exercise of non-consensual sexting and the expectations of autonomy, privacy, relief, etc.