Even though the manipulation and the confusion are real, women are also experts in their danger assessments, in the sense that if they are afraid, there's a reason. That's why both the police and the family justice system need to believe that, if a woman is afraid for her life and for her children's lives, it's because there is real danger. It's not in her head. She's not imagining it.
I think it's a very important guideline to understand that women are not exaggerating. The situations they're being placed in are very difficult and hard to believe, but they're real nonetheless.