I too would like to talk about therapy. As I said earlier, I work with violent men that we have been able to help. People have to know the difference between a narcissistic pervert and a violent man. Violent men have often experienced violence; they have no resources and don't know how to manage the violence. So we work with them and give them some tools. These men cry over it because they would never have done any harm if they had had the resources. So yes, it is possible to change these men.
Alongside therapy, we prepare reports for the court. We can tell a judge that a particular person will never change because he's a dangerous narcissistic pervert. A violent man is something else.
What I'm saying is that therapy can change and eliminate many forms of behaviour. They go hand-in-hand. We need to help men and stop spending so much effort on therapy for women. Men are the problem, not us women. If we get to the bottom of the problem and pay more attention to education in schools, as someone pointed out, spousal violence could decrease. There is so much of it now because there are no resources for men. Therapy and bracelets may make them think, and they are the only tools we have at the moment to reduce the violence and increase safety for women.