I would say that by extension when I say “the spouse”, I mean the family members--and friends; it doesn't have to be.... I've seen the way two or three of our Korean veterans have been acting and more or less urged them to apply for PTSD.
I say “the wife” because she is probably the person who can see these things more than anybody else, but certainly it could be family and friends--anybody, in fact, who sees these signs.
These signs are published, by the way. We get them in the Legion Magazine, and I put them in my magazine, telling people what to look for. It's no secret.