You might get a referral and you might be lucky enough to see somebody. In Nova Scotia it will typically take you two years to see a psychiatrist. That's outside of the military. A crisis might get you in a little sooner, but ongoing care is very difficult to manage. It seems to be that what's getting managed are absolute crises, because that's all there is time for. Anybody who isn't in an absolute crisis right now gets pushed to the side. Unfortunately, that is due to the lack of funding, both municipally and provincially. There simply aren't the funds or the resources.
You can go to mental health. The community has mental health outreach centres. Again, you're going to wait to see somebody, and the person you're going to see may not have what you need or the understanding of the special dynamics of a military family. The demands that are placed on those families are different from any other family. It's not that the person you see has to have an absolute understanding of military dynamics, but certainly they should have some appreciation that these families are stretched beyond capacity even in normal functioning, with deployment and posting, let alone adding a traumatic injury to that.