Also, beyond retirement, if you take care of the veteran in that two-year period, your fallout will be a better, open conversation between spouse and spouse. They'll be able to talk about the situation without the pressures of the job, and all that. It will open up communication lines between the two. But take care of the one who served first, and see the ripple effect.
On March 25th, 2014. See this statement in context.