Typically we operate in a grassroots format. We work with members talking to other members, and it seems to work the best. Most veterans and most members releasing don't trust the system—I'm sure that may come as a shock—but they do trust each other, so we try to keep that grassroots approach as much as possible.
What has to happen is that as a coordinator.... Somebody asked if the wife or the family can contact us. I have had wives contact me and say, “My husband needs your program”, and I say, “That's great; have your husband call me.” One of the things we need is for them to make that contact and for them to initiate, which tells us they're ready to do the treatment and they're ready to go through the program to get the work done.
What happens then is that we work with them. The first things I will ask are, “Are you with Veterans Affairs? Do you have a case manager? Did you open the door for discussion with your case manager? Do you have a therapist? Are you seeing a social worker or a psychologist?” I open the door for conversation. Why? It's because we're not here to do anybody else's job. What we're here to do is to help empower them in their own care plans.
When we do that, then all of a sudden we have so many people, and we bring everybody together to work on this one individual to come to success. That's how we do it. We keep it low key, and it's totally up to them. When they contact us, they're telling us they're ready to do the work, and that's key for us.