There are some good things out there. I've seen lives changed by the Soldier On program. That thing is fantastic. I don't know much more about its structure or how it's funded, but whoever is pulling that lever, keep pulling it, because it is doing very good things.
Aside from that, especially for men, that's a point in life where it's easy to flail. You just don't know what you are anymore. I struggled with that more than I struggled with what was going on in my head, and going on in my guts. Who am I now? For a while, there isn't that much.
Another little secret is, a lot of us do this to find that purpose a little bit again. I have a platoon that I used to have that I don't have anymore, but I still get to help them. If I can help you guys steer some benefits in the right direction, this can also be part of that.