I'll just reiterate what Jenny said. It's accessibility. Until she said it, I didn't even think about it. I thought to myself, I could really use some counselling, but I had to go through Dave to ask for it. It wasn't until she just said it now that, yes, that affects my dignity. I can't even go to Veterans Affairs and say I need counselling. I need help. It has to be through him. What if he's really mad at me, or what if he's off on one of the tangents that sometimes take a week or two for him to recover from? I have no accessibility. None.
On February 27th, 2018. See this statement in context.