That's a good question. Currently, we have our son and grandson living with us. My older son, ironically, is in the navy on the west coast, and he has his family out there. Initially, there will be a lot of paperwork. We'll then have to survive in a new normal state of family. That means that after all the paperwork is done and we know what we're entitled to, we'll be able to know how to move forward.
Of course, there will be a gaping hole without my husband, but, as we all know, life goes on with or without us. It's a matter of how we move on from that. I think he will be happy knowing I've done all I can to try to make a better life for our family. That's what it all comes down to. We all want what's best for our families. We take care of our families.
I think if he knows we're okay and we're going to be able to, for example, make the mortgage payments and make sure that we're able to move forward, it will give him peace of mind. Moving forward after he passes will of course be difficult, but we'll be able to do it.