Thank you very much for this invitation to speak.
This is not entirely about Walter and Norma Pinsent. It's about a law that is discriminating, ageist, sexist, destructive and hurtful, that impacts individuals and families of veterans of the Canadian Armed Forces and the RCMP.
We are punishing those who swore an oath to protect and serve without fear, favour and affection, who will take the bullet to protect us and other citizens of the world. The armed forces and the RCMP maintain the right and maintain our image as a peacekeeping nation.
Why are we protecting a 1901 regulation formulated under the British North America Act at a time when it was systemic, biased and prejudiced against women, and first nations? Are we still in that mindset?
Today, our Bill of Rights and Constitution reflect Canada's image as being more democratic and sensitive. Our laws have changed regarding sexual orientation, abortion and the war on drugs. Imagine, women are designated persons. Before the law they can vote and join the armed forces and rise to the rank of commissioner of the RCMP, or any other office of government. We can change. This is proof that we are a people who are maturing, growing, and we have reason and common sense. If it does have a place in our legislature, then why is this law not changed?
One gentleman said that many of us live vital, productive lives after 60. Modern medicine has improved my life through six surgeries for arthritis. Norma was 57 when we married and has been my partner and caregiver, seeing me through stressful rehabilitation for 17 years. She's especially supportive of my autistic son and is an indispensable part of our extended, blended family. She's known for her generosity, and supports families, local organizations and charities where government can't.
My stress level is resulting sometimes in restless nights. I'm continually assessing our resources. I want Norma to be able to live in her own home and continue to be an integral part of this community. I want to grant her the benefits of my pension and give us peace of mind. I'm running out of sunsets, and this issue is heavy on my heart.
This week alone in the media the news reflected that Canada is a reactive care country and is seriously lacking in the area of elder care. Apology at this time is a clear sign that the issue has not been fixed. I hate to think of Norma ending up in a nursing home like those who have been paraded before us in recent times. We could do well to look at other models of care, and Denmark has been set as a good example.
I acknowledge that this is all about money. We have to be careful, though, that we don't lose sight of individuals who are affected. As it is with this 1901 law, Canada would do us proud to get this skeleton out of the closet.
You have the power to do what is right. Change the law. For goodness' sake, let's get it done.