Mr. Speaker, I thank all my colleagues in the House this morning. Unfortunately, I had to stay in my riding. I love my riding, but today I would have preferred to be with my colleagues in the House. We heard some very important speeches this morning. We are united, as my colleagues have already said.
December 6, 1989, will forever be a tragic day. I remember it. I think everyone remembers it. We will never forget the events that took place at École Polytechnique.
I want to begin by saying a big thank you to our Minister of Women and Gender Equality.
I also want to express, as others have, condolences and sympathies for her family's loss.
I would also like to thank our Conservative Party colleague; our Bloc Québécois colleague, the member for Shefford; and our NDP colleague, the member for Winnipeg Centre. The message really is that it is senseless for such a thing to happen in our country.
We are a country that wants to reject violence. I know that my male colleagues in this place do not harbour a hatred of women, and I could not imagine what would unleash such hatred to kill women because they are women. We know that it happened in one specific location that we remember today, but it happens every day. As our colleague for Winnipeg Centre said, it particularly happens to indigenous women and girls.
I am blessed to have so many friends across the country, but it is only my women friends who are indigenous who always have a story. They tell me, “My mother died on the lower east side,” or “My sister went missing,” or “My auntie went missing.” One of my close friends in the indigenous community here in Saanich—Gulf Islands said to me once, “I was left for dead in a dumpster.” She then continued the conversation as if I would not be shattered by hearing that, because it is the common experience of our indigenous women and girls, our friends, the aunties, mommies and sisters. This is a common life experience, and we act as a country as if it is not an emergency that requires immediate attention.
Yes, today we remember the horrors of a killer walking into a classroom, sending the men outside. I must say, for those surviving men, what a horror. We know one took his own life afterward because how does someone get over that? They would be constantly struggling, thinking about what they should have done. They did not know what the killer intended; they were sent outside.
On this day particularly, I want to speak to and send love and support to our hon. Secretary of State for Nature. We had an earlier recognition of the International Day for the Elimination of Violence Against Women. I spoke to her afterwards, gave her a hug and said that this must be such a tough day for her. She said, “No, December 6 is the tough day.”
For what she will experience and for everyone who remembers, the anniversary dates are always searing. Two days from now, please remember to send love and prayers to all those who are the surviving family members.
The Secretary of State for Nature suffered. She was wounded. She now serves Canada's public interest in another way, but we will never forget.
We can take up the cause again, as other women have said in this place.
As an activist and a feminist, our colleague, the member for Shefford, has never stopped fighting violence. Every one of us needs to do more. This is a sad and sombre moment, but it is something else, too.
This is an opportunity to say aloud the names of the women engineering students who were killed and whom we honour this day. It is important, as the member for Shefford has said, that their names are engraved on our hearts.
We know, as our colleague from Winnipeg Centre has said, that these are not competing issues. They are all from one and the same fabric of hatred and violence. We do not have solutions today. I do not think any of us know why this persists. There is a patriarchy. There is an assumption that men are in charge. There are all kinds of assumptions, but it does not account for violent misogyny, intimate partner violence and our failure to end them.
Today, we remember and we hold in our hearts Geneviève Bergeron, Hélène Colgan, Nathalie Croteau, Barbara Daigneault, Anne-Marie Edward, Maud Haviernick, Maryse Laganière, Maryse Leclair, Anne-Marie Lemay, Sonia Pelletier, Michèle Richard, Annie St-Arneault, Annie Turcotte and Barbara Klucznik-Widajewicz.
I would like to say one thing to the women who were murdered in the Polytechnique massacre.
We will never, ever forget them. We will not rest until the violence ends. We will do whatever it takes in this country.
God help us figure out how to end the hatred of women in the hearts of some men, find an end to violence and ensure the safety of those in marginalized communities in particular, such as the LGBTQIA+ community, the trans women who are increasingly at risk, indigenous women and girls, and women who are at risk simply because we are women.
There is no room for hatred or violence in a civilized society, and we must embrace the compassion and forgiveness that help us help those who are consumed by hatred. It is not easy to figure out how to solve misogyny. It is horrific, but if we keep our hearts open, we make a commitment to act and we thank each other when we are unified, as we are today, we will find our way.
Each one of us today must be committed, regardless of our party, to say we will not rest until violence against women ends.