Thank you for saying that. That's exactly what's happened in the last 10 to 15 years, like we said earlier...trying to change youth sports into a breeding ground for the elite. It's supposed to be the long-term athlete development model, which enables everyone to play sport. There's social development, emotional, physical, team-building and a love of their sport. There are pathways to eventually become elite at that sport for the 5% who may move on past U18 or U21, and the fewer than 1% who may make money at that sport.
We seem to be able to move this professionalization of the sport younger and younger, and have moved away from, exactly as you mentioned, why you are playing the sport. It's celebrating the friendships and celebrating good coaches who want kids to come back year after year.
We have focused on the win-loss records and the shaming of teams if they are not at the top of their tiers. It has been to the detriment of the kids. The increased social media use of sharing results of teams, and highlights of players and athletes under the age of 18....
I don't know how it has been allowed, either, to constantly post children online. Other parents and associations...I'm not sure where they have permission to be doing that, because if you're highlighting one child's success on that sport that day, you're actually highlighting the failure of another. What is that doing to them?
There's a looking-glass, like a fishbowl, and they are constantly being evaluated. They're trying to move up or move down. They're assessed. There's a heightened sense of competitiveness, even in the lower levels.
In particular, I don't agree with what I call Halloween. Why are they dressing up like pro athletes when they are 12 and 13 years old? Other sports don't do this. You don't go to a swim meet, wear your suit and get pictures. You don't go to a volleyball tournament and post all kinds of things about looking like a pro athlete. We have moved that younger and younger. With the psychological development of children, and the identity versus role confusion that happens as a teen, you're messing with that.
Instead of developing athletes who are playing sports as something they do, you're tying it to their identity by calling them a soccer player, or a basketball player, which needs to be separated.
I'm sorry. I will finish there.