When we're talking about social media or access to the Internet, it's not something that happens at a certain designated time. Kids are online right now 24-7. It's just the online world and in-person world. They are intertwined. There is the idea that we can monitor our kids online, or we can teach them, and this is going to be enough.
As somebody who educates kids, I see the effect of education. It is effective. I'm not denying that. However, by not creating restrictions, especially age restrictions, we're putting the onus on parents. As an educator, I know education is effective. As a parent, I think it's not enough. If you are parenting a child, you're not around 24-7. My child is five. I gave her my phone for two seconds, and she ordered 12 banana loaves from Starbucks. The control and monitoring are just not there.
One other thing, as Stacy pointed out, is that we know kids have not developed their prefrontal cortex. Yes, they can critically think. Yes, they should have agency. Yes, they are brilliant. However, they are still youth. We cannot expect them to be able to deal with what comes with social media use.
We can teach them the signs of grooming. Again, it's effective. However, at the same time, if children have the need for belonging, attention, love, acceptance and community—which they all do—they're still vulnerable regardless of however much information and knowledge they have.
It's just the nature of the way these platforms work. Are we going to ask all of the platforms—and are they going to oblige—to put safety over freedom of speech? Are they going to be monitoring every single type of content being put out there? Are they going to be able to have control over every individual and the direct messages being sent to minors?
I ask because in my experience from seeing the levels of grooming and predators reaching out to kids, and kids being exposed to harmful content and their unlimited access to so much information they should not have access to, I think we're not going to be able to monitor and teach them enough that this in itself will keep them safe.
On age verification, I think there should be a minimum age. A couple of apps came out with age verification that used AI. It was extremely effective. Indeed, we tried to get around it in multiple different ways and we couldn't. If you tried to get around it, you were blocked from creating another account on the platform.
There are ways to do this. Yes, they will be costly, but the life of children is priceless. I think it's even more costly when we're seeing the cost of exploitation and grooming and the aftermath of having to deal with those things. Moderation is important. Education and equipping kids are critical, but we also have to hold these corporations, which have created businesses that are not safe for kids or not made for kids...to give free access to these children and youth to be on their platforms and leave it to the parents to monitor that.