From the very beginning of the war, we were sure that FEDERA had to help and assist Ukrainian refugees, women and girls, because our government would not provide them with access to reproductive health services. We established a hotline for women in the Ukrainian language. We printed a special brochure and guide for them. We especially helped, at the very beginning of the war, many young—not only young—girls and women who were raped.
It was very difficult to get testimony from women who were raped, because they didn't want to speak about this. They wanted to forget as soon as possible. During the end of one of these conversation, which I had many times, she said to me, “You know, I was raped by four, and after the fourth man I don't remember, because I fainted. The first thing I would like is to keep this top secret. It is only my problem and my issue. Just help me to take this out of me. Help me access an abortion, because I discovered that I am pregnant, and this is the eighth week of pregnancy.” Of course, we helped her.
It is very difficult to identify testimonies from women who were raped, because they just want access to abortion services. They don't want to speak. They don't want to go to the prosecutor or the police. In Poland, abortion for pregnancies resulting from rape is still legal, but the procedure is very complicated. We did many advocacy efforts to our government's ministry of health, just to treat these kinds of abortions.
For raped women, there's a special way and procedure, because this is a war crime. We also appealed to the European Union, to the Parliament, to treat this in a special way. Don't ask women about names and events, because they don't want to speak about this. They are afraid that somebody else could find out that they were raped. One of these women told me, “Could you imagine my life after the war? Could you imagine my husband and my family? If he knows that I was raped by several Russian soldiers, our greatest enemy, he will not touch me. I will not be his wife any longer.”
It's not easy.